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Latest figures (2025): UK Finance's Annual Fraud Report 2026 shows banks recorded £39.2 million of romance scam losses in 2025, up 23% on 2024, with the number of cases up 22%. Bank data and police data measure different things: banks count losses on their customers' payments, while police figures count all reports to Action Fraud (now Report Fraud), so the totals differ.
£106M
Total UK losses 2024/25
Action Fraud / NFIB
9,449
Reported cases
Action Fraud
+37%
Year-on-year increase
Action Fraud
£11,000+
Average loss per victim
Action Fraud / NFIB
84%
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YouGov/Ofcom
~5%
Cases actually reported
NCA estimate
Romance fraud is one of the fastest-growing crime categories in the United Kingdom. The figures above represent only the cases that are actually reported — the true scale is estimated to be 10–20 times higher. Shame, embarrassment, and a belief that nothing will be done prevent the vast majority of victims from coming forward.
The financial impact is devastating, but the emotional toll is often worse. Victims describe feelings of betrayal, depression, and isolation that can persist for years after the scam ends. Understanding the data is the first step toward protecting yourself and others.
